You don't have a business problem. You don't have a relationship problem. You have a You problem. And that's where we start.
Most clients come to me frustrated with their business, their relationship, or both. They've tried the strategies, hired the coaches, done the work on themselves. And something still feels missing.
Within the first conversation the same patterns emerge.
It's not the business. It's not the relationship. It's the person running both, stuck in a pattern they can see but can't seem to break, searching for the one thing that keeps slipping out of reach: feeling at peace with themselves.
What if you're looking in the wrong place?
More often than not, the answer isn’t out side of you. It’s in understanding yourself.
It’s easy to blame the people around you. Your partner doesn’t understand you. Your family expects too much.
Life isn’t giving you the breaks you deserve. And sometimes, you have every reason to feel that way.
But the same arguments, the same frustrations and the same familiar situations keep showing up for a reason. The way you think, react and respond is part of the story too.
That part is the one you can actually change
You don’t have to navigate it alone.
Everyone comes to this work from a different place..
You might know exactly what you want to change but have no idea why you keep falling into the same patterns. Or you might just have a feeling that something isn’t right, without being able to say what.
My role is to meet you where you are and help you see what’s happening beneath the surface, in ways that are hard to do on your own.
Here's what's possible
Imagine waking everyday knowing what you want, not what you think you should want.
Making decisions in your business and your relationships without second guessing yourself.
Charging what you’re worth. Setting limits with clients and partners. Having the conversation you’ve been avoiding, and feeling steady while you have it.
Not because life got easier. Because you know yourself well enough to navigate it.
This is for you, if...
✓ You run a business and carry most of it yourself.
✓ You’re in a relationship that should feel good but doesn’t.
✓ You’ve done the work on yourself and still feel stuck.
✓ You can see the pattern. You just can’t seem to change it.
✓ You’ve tried the strategies and the coaches, and something still feels missing.
And underneath everything you’re chasing, you just want to feel at peace.
Want to start on your own first?
What’s really holding you back? You’ve probably asked yourself that more than once.
Most of the answers out there are about doing more: a better strategy, a new habit, another course.
This guide looks beneath the surface. Inside you’ll explore:
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How patterns shape the way you think, feel and behave
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Where they come from
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How they may be influencing your life today
An easy read, in your own time. No strategy required.
Work With Me
The Fearless Foundation -
Three private sessions to understand how you are wired.
Using the Enneagram, we look at your three centres of intelligence:
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Head: how you think and make decisions
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Heart: how you feel and relate to others
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Body: how you instinctively react and protect yourself
C-OARS is the framework I created to help you work with what you find: Curiosity, Observe, Accept, Release, Surrender.
You’ll start to see the patterns running your decisions and reactions, and where you can choose differently.
This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about understanding yourself well enough to build from there.
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What My Clients Say
"Pre-Ines my mind was frazzled. It's not even close now."
- Corinna, Skin Refinery -
"Thank you very much Ines for your time and your insights and advices. Spot on on so many items . I feel you see right through me . It’s hard to hear some of it as it’s confronting and unsettling. But I also feel relieved to have met you and finally someone is seeing me . Thank you for your time. I am looking forward to working with you to elevate my self to a new level."
- Emilie -
"Ines guided me to transform my thinking patterns and achieve a multi-level slowdown."
- Nadia, Sasha Jewellery -